Keys to Successful Long Distance Courtship
Long distance relationships, courtships, or marriages can certainly be a challenge. It requires a higher level of patience and communication in order to make it a success. You can win at long distance love and we can show you with the Match Society’s Courtship Code workshop. I personally know the challenges and can show you ways to make the courtship not only work but manifest into something real.
More people are open to and engaging in expanding their net of marital options due to advancement in technology and travel. It’s become easier now than ever to make a long distance relationship happen and last. However, it will take work. Start with owning your insecurities or neediness that’s making you show up low-value and seeking validation in ways that will push them away. By work we mean from the inner core, connecting with aspects of your personality you may have been able to suppress when living alone, but now the challenge of the distance tugs at trust issues and anxiety you’ll need to Detox in order to be successful. You want to be so energetically attractive your partner yearns to visit and see you as often as possible.
On Courtship Code, we shared with you 5 Major Keys you’ll need to win from a distance.
Here are a few takeaways:
Set Goals, Plan, and Execute - Any thing you want to win at must be intentional. Your number one objective must be to have realistic goals and to execute them. Without this key, you’ll waste a lot of time and emotions.
Manage Communication - Having regular and not excessive communication is the major key. On the podcast we broke down other tips regarding communication you MUST master in order to have an amazing long distance courtship. You can learn more in the Match Society workshops.
Include friends and Family - It’s a family affair. Including 3rd parties feels more grounded and as though you’re really moving towards your relationship goals. Remember, when you marry someone you marry their family. You have to know who and what you’re marrying into. Having a supportive tribe who understands your unconventional love story is important.
Work Together - Long distance courtship requires time and resources. Be open and flexible to how to make it work. Take turns with travel and finances. Figure out a balance that creates win win solutions.
Find Ways to Give - Speak to their love languages from afar. It’s totally possible! Find ways to give and receive love from a distance that creates and extends bonds.
Share in the comments any tips you have about long distance courtship to help others with their journey.