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Heal Sabotaging Emotional Wounds, Recharge Attraction and Position Yourself for the RIGHT Matches.

If you’ve been single for years, in cycles of non-committal situationships, frequently ghosted, and feeling like a quality relationship will not happen for you, you can quickly shift away from this endless loop of frustration and start feeling highly desirable and worthy of love while attracting the ideal partners for you.

All it takes is a clear and intentional method with a sprinkle of your feminine magic.

You don’t have to continue feeling anxious, fearful of being left, defensive, inauthentic, and like toxic relationships are just a way of life.

So many ambitious, smart, professional women, like the ones I work with, are high achievers in their career but feel broken and completely discouraged with their love life. You’re tired of watching your friends and family sail by with their love life, meanwhile you feel like your ship has completely sunk.

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I want to let you in on a secret…

The experiences you’ve been having and the emotions you’ve been struggling to manage are NOT completely your fault.

“Studies show that while emotional wounds may have changed your brain, your innate neuroplasticity means that you can change it again.” - Andrea Brandt, PhD., Psychology Today 

Who, what & how you’ve been drawn to incompatible men will change when you know exactly what to do you to realign the way you’re magnetically enticed by them, from DEEP within. It requires more than affirmations, sage, or your favorite pair of heels. Instead, intentional mental and emotional inner shifts that allows you to respond differently in courtship and the pre-commitment phase, will get you the partner you desire faster than hoping and waiting it will occur.

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If you’ve been indulging in Youtube relationship videos, social media memes, and all the “Think like a man,” books you can handle...step away, now.

You don’t need anymore relationship tactics to make you overthink, over analyze, and create even more relationship anxiety. Feeling worn out and inauthentic is only getting you further away from your relationship goal than you desire and deserve. You certainly don’t need to be the next Olivia Pope, high powered and highly attracted to spending years waiting for an unavailable man.

What you need is a clear path on how to not only start healing those deep, burdensome emotional wounds, but also to start feeling like you ARE enough and understanding how to position yourself in front of the RIGHT people who will value that.

This 6 week coaching program is for women who are ready to identify sabotaging relationship behaviors, get clear and heal deep rooted wounds, realign your true value, and increase confidence to be magnetically positioned for the right partner.


Clients who work 1 on 1 with me and are SERIOUSLY ready to make real relationship changes usually meet their match within 3 months. This is for those who are serious about getting clear and taking action. Read testimonials and if this is a fit for you before becoming a client.


This is right for you if:

  • You are coachable and ready to take the necessary changes to take action in your love life

  • You’re ready to get real about who you are and your deep-seeded beliefs about marriage and the opposite sex

  • Your time is limited due to your lifestyle or profession and want to stop wasting time thinking about meeting someone and fast track introductions

  • You’re ready to reclaim your personal value and quit low-value mindsets and actions causing you to settle in relationships

  • You are ready and able to invest financially and energetically in making a shift in your future, unlearn bad relationship behaviors, and create lasting qualities that impact your love life.

This is NOT right for you if:

  • You are eager to meet matches BUT unwilling to make changes to your current mindsets and actions

  • You’re unwilling to expand your net of options and feel limited to a “type”

  • You don’t like transparency about your past and own toxic behaviors keeping you stuck

  • You’re not interested in investing in one of the most important areas of your life, your relationships

  • You have tons of excuses about why you’re single and looking to blame others instead of taking accountability and taking action

  • You’re unsure if marriage or matchmaking is for you and don’t believe there’s someone who fits what you desire

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Meet Your Coach

Author, Relationship Coach and Matchmaker Zara J.

I’m excited to share with you some of my favorite principles which have helped my clients since 2015. After years of coaching and matchmaking professional, unmarried women, I’ve taken time to create my 6 step Courtship Code program which pieces together golden clues my successful match clients have embodied in order to meet and marry quality matches. I can’t wait to share this information with you!

Questions about working with me or want to book me for Speaking? Email me at